I dropped out of university, don’t show up to my current job on time, and in my spare time watch TV, drink too much beer, and play video games. I haven’t bothered to read a book in ten years and have little ambition. Oh, I deserve to be rich.
Also, I’m fifty pounds overweight, haven’t so much as picked up a baseball in ten years, and definitely am too busy (playing video games) to attend any meaningful baseball practices or work with a trainer. But, I am sure I deserve to start on my town’s AA baseball team.
Are you laughing yet? You should be since the fictional accounts above are examples of absurd entitlement.
Let’s try another scenario:
I have no sense of humor, no charm, and am a passive doormat. I’m 50 pounds overweight, don’t smell the best at times, and my clothes (from 6 years ago) don’t fit. I get needy and whiny and passive-aggressive when I don’t get my way. I don’t talk to women because I’m afraid and am a poor conversationalist if I do happen to meet someone. But, I am sure that I deserve a hot woman.
Are you still laughing? You should be. Because the previous scenario is another example of absurd entitlement. But, it’s all too common among many guys who think they deserve a relationship.
Guys, you do not “deserve” a woman, let alone a hot woman.
The problem is that in the United States, we have been told that just by “being ourselves” we deserve every possible good thing. Just by existing, everyone deserves a good job, plenty of dates, and praise and admiration from everyone. Unfortunately, this isn’t true. Real life can be tough. I wish it weren’t so, but it is. Sadly, studies show some guys really are “forever alone,” because a relatively small number of guys are monopolizing the women in a given area.
Yes, that is right. A small number of guys get a lot of women. A large number of guys barely get a woman or maybe don’t get one at all.
You may have even realized this already. Your charming buddy has five women seeking his attention, while you have none. The manager at work is texting four women at once, while you barely get anything, and if you do, it is just “as a friend.”
And that is what we are about at The Popular Man. Why this small percentage of guys gets women isn’t a secret. Science explains why these guys are so successful, and truthfully, looks don’t even play much of a role. You can learn these secrets too. You don’t deserve a woman. You don’t deserve a date.
Getting a hot woman is all about knowing how to become attractive and then the skills to attract them. The problem is that while many guys know what leads to success in other areas, they think dating women is somehow a big mystery.
So, they get that if they want to be wealthy, they have to work hard, have a good idea, and invest time and money. They also understand that if they want to succeed at a sport it takes hard work, practice, and skill development. Believe it or not, the same applies to dating. There are proven ways to be successful with women. You just have to admit you need the help and do it.